A mind, being ambivalent, gives couplings. In couplings the masculine beginning catches for womanish; a man and woman is a top and bottom, heaven and earth — coupled to each other in a fight. In place of unity is opposition and fight: who who will win over. Won is death. Such is a mind-ego humanity lives in which today.

Remind that, included in coupling, people play off between itself the relations. There is a parent and child in everybody. There is coupling «teaching the rules of conduct in society, prodigal son».

In this coupling resist and fight with each other governed chaos, prison and freedom. Will notice in passing, that in prison get preeminently from this coupling. «Can not accept a mother and what it teaches you, — step in prison and think» — so it sounds. In clink prisoners realize it, therefore confession before a mother there so popularly.

Following coupling which interests us: «turned away, cold in love and attention son».

This coupling also exists from little up. Man, which it lives in, torments terrible hunger. Black hole which arises up as a result of this coupling, not able to fill nobody, except for it.

. How? By an awareness that, how he was grabbed with a mother and requires, requires, requires love and proofs of love from it. Being the grown man, such man carries the attitude toward a mother on a wife and friends. With a wife he creates those relations of which he had with a mother in childhood.

Couplings «mother-son» much, and in one or another kind they are in all people. I for some reason wanted to decide two above-mentioned coupling; probably, time walked up. I sat down in meditation and felt, as coupled with a wife and mother, as I, man, resist a woman and contest with it. Appears, on it leave almost it my forces and time, and I it do not see, does not feel. These couplings suck out from me force and gradually. With age the first couplings can almost fully a man, and he becomes incompetent practically. The second couplings deprive him masculine force.

I sat and lived all of it. Naturally, a question got up to me, how to go out from these couplings amicably, with a benefit for both sides. Amicably, because, as life, fight, rotined did not help. At the decision of couplings none of sides must feel losing, both side must be satisfied a decision.

I simply sat and looked, putting before itself a question, doing nothing and even trying nothing to decide. Suddenly before eyes responsibility emerged in a that kind, in what I described it higher. In I did not even realize the beginning, that it and there is a decision of my question. I took the liberty to submerge in this responsibility, absorbing it all creature, feeling, living.

The similar couplings exist also between daughter and mother, by daughter and father, but with the variations.